Alhambra, CA – A woman in California managed to discreetly alert a 7-Eleven employee that she was in danger by using a secret hand signal, resulting in the arrest of her alleged abuser. This brave move highlights the power of simple gestures in combating domestic violence and saving lives.
Authorities were called to the convenience store on Sunday after the employee recognized the woman was making the Canadian Women’s Foundation’s distress hand signal—tucking her thumb under her four fingers. The quick response that followed led to the apprehension of John Palombi, who had an active arrest warrant and was carrying a stun gun at the time.
A Life-Saving Hand Signal
The hand signal that sparked the intervention was created by the Canadian Women’s Foundation as a discreet way for individuals in danger to ask for help when they cannot speak out loud. When the 7-Eleven employee noticed the gesture, they immediately acted by calling law enforcement.
- The signal involves tucking the thumb inside the palm while folding the other four fingers over it.
- This nonverbal cue is becoming increasingly recognized globally as a sign that someone needs help.
- Awareness of such signals is crucial for frontline workers like convenience store employees who interact frequently with the public.
Swift Police Response and Arrest
Body camera footage released by the Alhambra Police Department shows officers approaching the scene and speaking with the woman inside the store. The officer calmly asked, “Are you OK? Do you mind if I talk to you really quick?” and quickly determined a domestic violence incident had occurred.
According to the NY Post, Palombi attempted to flee the scene but was immediately captured and arrested. He is currently held without bail on domestic violence charges.
“He did a great job because she needed help and that was a good time he did it,” said Shamsher Singh, a colleague of the 7-Eleven employee, praising the worker’s quick thinking.
Recognition for the 7-Eleven Employee
The unnamed 7-Eleven employee is being hailed as a hero for recognizing the hand signal and taking prompt action to save the woman. Their responsiveness demonstrates how vigilance and awareness can make a significant difference in crisis situations.
Shamsher Singh, a co-worker, commended the employee, saying, “He made a good call.” This incident emphasizes the importance of educating the public and frontline workers about signs of domestic abuse and how they can intervene safely.
Raising Awareness and Support for Victims
Domestic violence affects countless individuals, and subtle communication methods like this hand signal can be lifesaving tools.
- If you or someone you know is affected by domestic violence, help is available.
- Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788.
What Can You Do to Help?
Awareness and intervention save lives. Recognizing the signs of domestic violence and knowing how to respond can empower you to assist someone in need.
Have you ever seen or used this hand signal? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!
