Memphis, TN – A 51-year-old man is facing serious charges after allegedly shooting his wife and then stopping to buy beer while driving her to the hospital, according to the Shelby County District Attorney’s Office.
The incident occurred last month and was detailed in a recent Facebook post from prosecutors.
Confrontation Leads to Shooting
Authorities say the victim told investigators she was blocked from leaving when her husband, Decarlo Pitchford, pulled out a firearm and shot her.
Fox9 reported that after the shooting, Pitchford allegedly told her, “I told you to stop playing with me.”
Despite her injuries, Pitchford drove her toward the hospital but reportedly stopped for beer along the way before continuing to the medical facility for treatment.
Charges and Bond
Pitchford has been charged with:
- Second-degree murder
- Domestic assault
- Felon in possession of a firearm
He is currently being held in custody on a $350,000 bond.
Authorities have not released details about the woman’s current medical condition, and it remains unclear if she has been released from the hospital.
Ongoing Investigation
The Shelby County District Attorney’s Office continues to investigate the case. Officials have not said whether prior incidents of domestic violence were reported in the household or what circumstances led to the confrontation.
Domestic violence advocates stress that these types of cases often escalate over time, with warning signs sometimes overlooked or unreported.
Domestic Violence in Tennessee
Tennessee has long battled high rates of domestic violence incidents, ranking above the national average for intimate partner violence in several recent crime reports. Advocates say easy access to firearms can increase the risk of deadly encounters in domestic disputes.
Resources such as crisis hotlines, shelters, and counseling services are available for those who may be in abusive relationships. Victims are encouraged to seek help early and to report threats or acts of violence to law enforcement.
Community Reaction
The shocking nature of the allegations — particularly the decision to stop for beer before getting medical help — has drawn public outrage and renewed calls for stronger protections for domestic violence victims.
What measures do you think Tennessee should take to better protect domestic violence victims? Join the conversation today in the comments section and share your opinion.














